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“That’s my daughter in the water …”

Posted in Ramblings, Uncategorized on August 28, 2010

I’ve been listening to this song alot and every time I listen to it I have to fight back the tears. It’s a weepy time in my life. No way around it.

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And, Lovebunny whom makes us ask each other every single day (literally), “Do you think everyone else thinks she’s as cute as we do or are we just totally biased?” Either way we don’t really care. We are totally in-love.

Happy 6-weeks, Charley Lou. We love you more than we ever thought possible.

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Katie

Greetings from Antarctica! I’m back! Charley is Adorable with a capital A!

Stephanie

Happy six weeks! And yes, she’s every bit as cute as you think she is:)

Caroline

SO happy for you! She is precious :] LOVE that song… did you happen to hear it yesterday from Jasmine Star’s live wedding broadcast??? Just heard it for the first time when I was watching that… so sweet!

Heather

Want to all-out bawl? Zach Gill - Watch Them Grow. Does it to me every time… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmfIOKYPkNE

Lisa Anderson

Awww - I hadn’t heard that song before and I totally love it! And while I think all parents think their children are the best and cutest at everything (and rightfully so) you just happen to right about Charley Lou…she is totally the cutest! And quite honestly given how she came into your life you are even more entitled to feel that way! We are the same about our kids and even joke and say, “Oh she/he takes after my side of the family”

Baber

Dude, I miss that kid. And your face.

Beth

She is pretty darn cute! Congrats!

Becca

No she’s definitely adorable! :-) You’re not just biased . . .

Julie

Love the song and love the photos (thank you for sharing!). Yes, she is absolutely darling. Enjoy the bliss!
Julie D. (503 workshop alum)

Claudia R.

OMG! I’m in tears now. That song I heard a lot when my daughter was a baby. Brings bak many lovely memories.
Your sweet Charley are so cute :) Congratulations!

a quick photography tip:

Posted in Misc on August 26, 2010

Michael Zhang always tweets the best links to articles, videos, photos and more. Anytime people ask for suggested Twitterers to follow I always suggest him. This morning he linked to this video of Annie Leibovitz creating images of Sean Connery for Louis Vuitton. It’s a short little video — watch it, pay attention to everyone’s attire and read below.

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Of course I don’t know this for a fact, but what stuck out to me most was how everyone - Annie and her entire team - was wearing white. Know why?

White is the best color to wear when you are photographing someone. Your clothes alone will serve as a natural reflector, splashing light back onto your subject. Dark clothes absorb the light. White reflects. So, if you are like me and don’t have the desire to carry around a reflector when shooting simply wear white. You and your entire 15 person team. : )

xo!

jc

p.s. a picture of my love bugs:

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Amy

gotta love me some of that PS… Yummy!! :-D

NINA M. WELLS

COOLNESS!

james

obsessed. beautiful pic and love the peach fuzz!

danielle

ALMOST makes me want one more <3

David Stephen Kalonick

Oh my!!!

Tammy

This picture is just amazing! I’m weepy! :)

It’s just me and you,

Posted in Misc, Uncategorized on August 25, 2010

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I’m so happy to be sitting where I am right now. Baby Girl had a rough night so I did as well. Not much sleep was had and then mother-of-the-year took her to the park and the clouds blew away at just the wrong time and left the hottest sun ever with us a mile from the car and her crying because she was sweating to death. We worked it out and all was well. I was simply reminded to remain flexible and laugh often.

Corey got off work when Charley’s world was falling apart and came to rescue us both. He fed her, took her to the grocery store and returned home with wine and brownies. I returned home from running a much needed errand with fresh flowers from Trader Joes. Upon walking in the door he rubbed my shoulders, gave me that bit of undivided attention I needed and shewed me off upstairs for at least a couple hours. I am now sitting here writing to you freshly showered (with conditioned hair AND shaved legs!) and relaxed. I was trying to decided if I should nap or write and I’ve decided to write. It gives me something a nap never could.

The past two nights I have not been able to sleep. I crash at 9:30 and then wake up about an hour later only to lay there with my loves on either side and the dog underneath. All snoring. You can imagine how frustrating that is when you are sleep deprived and desiring nothing more than to visit dreamland with them.

In my previous life I would have simply gotten up, made a bowl of ice cream and watched TV while the Tylenol PM kicked in. Now I will not let myself get out of bed rationalizing that if my head is on the pillow at least my muscles are resting.

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Last night I spent time continuing to dream about the Spring vacation we are going to take.

There is a short list of things that make my heart burst with happiness. The obvious is family and friends, being a wife to my sweet man and a mother to the most amazing little girl ever. Right under those is my intense desire to see the world and my love for creating a home that runs efficiently and is functional and comfortable to all who enters it.

So, last night via my iPhone I researched vacation ideas … a Brazilian cruise (except we’d port out of Brazil which is a long way away), renting an RV and seeing the country (except most of the areas around here I’d wish to see will most likely be under snow in April — although this is an idea I’d really love to do next fall!), go to Hawaii (definitely appealing although Corey showed zero interest), go to Greece (except Greece’s economy is the pits right now and it’s an even longer flight), go to France … this was proving to be very promising. Flights were a bit pricey, but we have time and best yet there are tons of direct flights from Cinci to Paris and we could then fly home from Brussels, Belgium. I presented my grand-middle-of-the-night-idea to Corey and he liked it. He likes French women (kidding) and Belgium beer (not kidding) alot.

The only downside is that it will still be cold there (average highs in the low 60’s), but we’ve been to plenty of countries with the weather like that and it’s manageable. Of course Charley will be with us. She’ll be 9-months old. I know we don’t really know what type of child she’ll be at that point and if she proves to be more of a handful than Europe can handle than a week at my parent’s house in Banner Elk will make me equally as happy (although Corey won’t have his women and beer ; ).

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I am madly in-love with this print. I told Corey that I can’t stop staring at it and that I’d like it as a HUGE print. He told me to send him a link and that he could get it for me for Christmas. I hope I can wait that long. I was thinking that I would re-do our guest room and hang it on the wall. It’s totally random and unexpected to have a giant cow’s head on the wall in your guest room, right, but that’s why I want to do it all the more. It’s so great. You must check out Sharon’s other prints. I would like an animal in every room in our house. Oh! Just thought of something … couldn’t you see several of her prints hanging in a playroom? How fabulous would that be?

p.s. Is it just me or when you look at that print do you feel guilty for liking and eating red meat, too?

(I can hear Charley downstairs crying. It’s her “waaaah. eh, eh, eh. wah. eh. (silence) eh, cough, waah.” That’s her where’d-you-go-and-if-you-did-leave-why-didn’t-you-take-me-with-you? cry. I can hear Corey in the kitchen (most likely making dinner) saying, “Hold on, honey, hold on.” He just all but ran across the room to her and she is no longer crying. (And, yes I did consider going downstairs to help, but he insisted I take some time to relax and I do not want to be one of those wives if you know what I mean.))

So, I can’t decide if I should re-do our entire house or just dream up ideas for our future house. I don’t want to purge and start-over. I more just want to paint and move stuff around, maybe replace a rug and a few decor items. Here are a few photos that have me dreaming big and small …

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It’s dinner time! I’ll post more inspirational pics later.

Love!

jc

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jeff

OK, I know I have only myself to blame for not making the two-mile drive to your house to visit, but seriously — this is a PHOTOGRAPHY WEB SITE, and I do not see any pictures in this post of your ADORABLE INFANT DAUGHTER.

caroline

So sorry you had a rough night. Wish I had known but then what could I do from so far away. We are so lucky to have such a fabulous son in law who takes such wonderful care of our daughter. Corey, thanks for being the best husband, son in law & now Dad ever!!!! You are so blessed to have him & now your precious daughter. These nights will get better. Can’t believe she’s almost 6 wks old!!!! Time is already flying. Love to you all. Mom

Karyn H

That cow print made me think of this:
http://www.amazon.com/Creature-ABC-Andrew-Zuckerman/dp/0811869784/ref=ntt_at_ep_dpt_3

You and the little one might enjoy this book together!

Christi

Jessica, congrats on your “new” baby girl. I feel bad I haven’t been keeping up with you and all your new life happenings since taking your workshop. Just wanted to stop in and say hi, congrats, and let you know it made me smile to read that baby Charley was laying in bed beside you. Is there anything more precious than having your little bundle cuddled all up beside you sleeping peacefully? I think not! ; )

Linni

oeee…love that yellow door!!!

I’m soo excited that you are living your dream!!! so very very happy!!! And you know what? Our little son is the most beautiful and adorable littel guy on earth! Sorry Charley, you have competition…teehee..

we also wonder if other parents love their children THAT much…and if their children are SOOO cute and beautiful for them… i truly hope so!!!

Enjoy the loving on Charley! xx

the story {part 1}

Posted in Ramblings on August 18, 2010

Hi Everyone!

I’m attempting to stick my head out of this thick newborn fog I’m totally immersed in. Leading up to the birth of Charley there was so much going on — workshops, weddings, and more — but I could not find the energy to blog much when so much was happening at home. Now that our secret is out I feel as if I have SO much I want to catch my faithful readers up on, but my time is no longer. Butterbean is an incredible eater and sleeper at night. During the day she’s more of a party animal and only sleeps soundly in my arms or wrapped in my Moby. And, good grief … she’s such a miracle and such a small baby (who is already a MONTH old) so I am totally fine carrying her around everywhere I go. (Not to mention I am completely, madly, over-the-moon in love and miss her when she’s riding in her car seat in the back!) So all that to say my 8-10 hours on the computer a day has turned in to about 30 minutes every 3-4 days.

Nevertheless, I have been working on this post (starting below) for over a week now. It’s probably terribly written (remember … not much sleep for me), but I am so eager to get our story out there. I feel confident it will be helpful for others to read. Others … struggling with infertility, too or others considering adoption themselves … or others who just simply care about us. So, here goes …

p.s. I miss you all so much!

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Have I ever mentioned that doctors have never found anything wrong with either of us? Maybe it could be this .. or this they’d say, but definitively nothing has ever been found wrong. And yet, three and a half years later I am not pregnant.

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It was last fall when I photographed the bike tour. (The tour goes across the state of Tennessee (434 miles in 5 days) to promote adoption.) It was my second year and I think since I wasn’t quite as freaked out/overwhelmed like I was the first year I had the mental room to enjoy the week. The week brought incredible thrills and sobering moments. I loved hearing all the stories of adoption - people who had adopted and people who were adoptees - but always in the back of my mind was the thought … the fear if I can be totally honest … that adoption would be the only way we would be able to build a family.

Nevertheless, time was ticking and my passion and desire to be a mom was a raging fire in my soul. I longed nothing more than to play a role I’ve wanted to play since I was a child.

When I returned home I shared the stories and my heart with Corey - leaving out my fears for the most part and instead only sharing my enthusiasm for what adoption could mean for us. He reluctantly agreed that I could contact an agency that week only to see what the process would entail. “Babe, you know it takes MONTHS of paperwork and classes and such and then years to be placed. This does not mean we can’t continue with the fertility treatments. It just means we’re opening up another door.” (I must add that this was possibly the 100th conversation we had had about adoption over the course of about 6+ months.)

That night I laid in bed and researched adoption agencies in the city on my iPhone. I found one whose website seemed simple and the number easy to find. It didn’t intimidate me like the others so I bookmarked it and drifted off to sleep waiting for the morning to arrive. The following day (October 12, 2009) I made coffee and tried to work a bit. I think I got about an hours worth of work done before I eagerly dialed the number. She answered and although I totally fumbled over all of my words our conversation flowed effortlessly. She, too, had battled infertility, she too is married to a doctor and she has two adopted daughters whom she adores. So much so she started a small agency in the city to pair up birthmoms with adoptive parents. Only in Cincinnati though. It seemed strange to limit ourselves so much to just one city, but it also seemed safe and easy and ultimately it simply felt right. She told me she’d send me the initial paperwork and I finished the day with my heart fluttering away.

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The following week we left for Spain with friends and sneakily filled out the paper work on the plane over. Corey was still reluctant and I felt like - although I was TERRIFIED - I could not allude to any of it. “Babe … it’s just an open door. Don’t panic.”

Three home meetings with a social worker, paperwork, one class on cultural differences (which was a waste of time), background checks, medical reports and a home-safety check and we were done. The brunt of it was done by Christmas with the last few homestudy meetings done in January. As we waited for our “approval” letter (which came in February) all that was left was for me to design our profile book. It took several weeks, but finally one late night the inspiration hit and I spent just about the remainder of the dark hours designing it.

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untitled-4aAs I had promised Corey, we continued on with fertility treatments. IVF in January showed us yet again that we are so very healthy and so not pregnant. We were in Charleston when we got the results. We sat in our friends’ cabin living room and cried. Both of us. How is it possible to desire something so deeply and only run into closed doors? Something seemed off. Or maybe it was that something seemed on …

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On our very long journey home I resolved to the fact that God was being very obvious that he had different intentions for us. This did not mean that our journey was going to unfold without pain, but I started to truly believe that the pain would one day flourish into incredibly joy. A joy that was a bit of a beacon to all the others (!!!) who also struggle with infertility. The loneliness, the pain, the lies as a woman you begin to believe when your body fails you, the empty longings, the confusion … I know some of you understand all too well.

As for Corey he was still very much struggling with the inability to have a child biologically. I do not fault him for this. I believe strongly that God made men to be this way. To pass on their genes. For us women it’s different. God made us maternal. Give us a breathing soul and we will care for it with all of our energy.

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In early April through a crazy series of events the lady who coordinated Boho Girls’ adoption emailed me to see if we would be interested in sharing our book to a birthmom. The baby was a Puerto Rican boy. I was already in love. I excitedly told Corey the news when he got home from work only to meet resistance. I was so frustrated and saddened. We left for a week of travels — including a few days we spent with friends at my parent’s cabin in Banner Elk — to interview for his fellowship. It seemed we spent most of our free time talking about it. The long car rides gave us both the time and freedom to be honest about how we were truly feeling about all sorts of things. It became a bit more obvious to me that the biggest reason Corey hadn’t done this before was because of me. I wouldn’t let him. I was broken and I needed him to be strong. I couldn’t be broken and have him be broken, too. I know it’s selfish, but it’s the truth.

When we returned home I sadly called and said that we did not feel a peace about it and would be proceeding on with the adoption agency we were already working with.

That weekend we were invited to come to our agency here in Cinci and hear an adoptive family share their journey to adopting their two children. Somewhere in the midst of the hour talking he said, “When you’re in the process it seems so overwhelming and difficult, but I promise it’s worth it. That’s all I can say. I hope you believe me.”

That was enough for Corey. For the first time he was on-board and hopeful. That was April 11th, 2010.

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Only one week later we received a call that a birthmom had chosen our book and wanted to meet us. “Don’t get your hopes up. She’s in Cleveland and it sounds like she’s talking to other agencies as well. You could very well be one of a dozen she’s interviewing. Honestly, to me, it seems a bit far-fetched.”

Although my head believed that, my heart felt different. My heart felt hope like I had never felt before. I can’t even explain it. It was the scariest, most liberating thing I’d felt in a long time.

At the time, Corey was practicing medicine in Honduras. I patiently waited for his call that evening to let him know the news. “A birthmom has some questions for us. I’m going to type those up this week and send them along. I have no idea what this could mean, but it’s a positive step in the right direction. That’s at least something to celebrate.” Corey was just as excited as I was.

And, I leave you here … I’ll be back soon with part 2.

Hang tight ….

jc

p.s. Remember when I said in a few posts this past Spring that I had exciting news to share? Yea … it was that we were adopting! Now you know. : )

p.p.s. Do you wanna see an updated picture of Charley? Of course you do!

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Gail

SHe is PRECIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Molly in MN

Charley is absolutely the most beautiful baby (aside from my own of course)! Congratulations once again - I’m sure your heart is so full you can hardly stand it! :)

Karyn Hlad Miller

I already cannot wait for part two! Thank you for the update.
Her hair! Her tiny little self! So adorable!
Love and sleep to you.

Erika

She is beautiful, so lucky and loved!

Monica in Northern CA

Congratulations! She is so beautiful! Can’t wait to read part 2 =)

Tonya

May God (continue to) bless you! Thank you for sharing your story with us!

Hannah

What a beautiful story, and a BEAUTIFUL daughter! Blessings on your precious family!

Christi

She is so precious and beautiful. I”m so thankful that your family is united at last! :)

brooke

Love her so much and so thankful for your beautiful story! Can’t wait to see you again!

Jeanine

Oh Jessica! I’m so happy for you! What a wonderful mother you are going to be! And how blessed Charley is that God chose you and your husband to be her parents! What a wonderful journey you’re starting. Thanks so much for sharing it with all of us who care for you so much.

AmyC

Oh Jessica! I’m so happy you’re sharing your story! I love your words and your honesty with your feelings and emotions. And it is amazing how God works right? You felt uneasy then when your soul was at rest, the magic happened! I do remember you saying you had exciting news!! She is absolutely perfect and so sweet! You are all so blessed!

Jennifer

When does the book come out? I want to read more and I know the story! Beautifully written even by a tired mommy. :)

Ruxi

Jessica, what a beautiful story and beautiful writing. I was in your workshop back in Nov and have followed your blog for some time now. Your daughter is so beautiful and congratulations! I can’t wait to read part 2. Please do post more pictures of her!

Leigh

Jess… reading through this the main sense I get is the incredible honesty and openness you and Corey have and have furthered through this journey. This may not sound like much to a strong woman like yourself but the path you two took has created an even stronger connection that will take you through many of life’s “challenges” :0) The outcome? An absolutely beautiful addition to your family. She is precious and we can’t wait to meet her in person! Much love to you all !

Stephanie

Gah! She is the cutest thing ever!

Lori K

Thank you for your story, it is beautifully written! I am so happy for you and your family!

DeniseG.

Beautiful story–I’m so happy for you! Charley is an angel!

Carrie H

God is good, all the time. All the time, God is good. Blessings on you as you start on this journey of motherhood. My heart is so full of love and joy for you every time I think of you and sweet Charley. She’s beautiful. Congratulations!

ang

oh for goodness sakes i am on the edge of my chair. i love your writing, adore your heart, and am absolutely giddy over your gorgeous daughter! xoxo friend.

Judi

Such a beautiful story. Such a beautiful baby. Such beautiful parents.
Can’t wait for part 2 love and hugs.

Katie C

Always so thankful for you real-ness. I cannot WAIT to get my hands on that sweet girl! See you soon!

Katie C

Always so thankful for your real-ness. I cannot WAIT to get my hands on that sweet girl! See you soon!

Lyndsey G

Congratulations!! She is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your story.

Becca

I am so so excited for you and cant wait to hear the rest of the story! :-) what a cutie!

oh and thanks again so so so much for the photography help/lessons for the kiddos — did you see the pictures on my blog from our class? :-) yay!

Sarah

I don’t know how I found your blog, I think through boho girl. I am totally addicted to your photography and your site and your blog. I am an I am an adoptive mom as well and I LOVE reading stories like yours. I love the way you write and I love your honesty. I am SO happy for you! And I don’t even know you. Please post part 2 of the story SOON. –Sarah

Karen Cudzilo aka "Grandma"

I’m like Jennifer, even though I know the story I can’t wait until Part 2 comes out. It is todays reminder of the goodness and faithfulness of God. He truly desires our trust and adoration.

betsy

Jessica,
What joy to have prayed for you and Corey and Charlotte and here you all are…a beautiful family! It was fun to be at your shower last Sunday.

Ashley

Jess- You have a way with words. God has blessed you with so many incredible talents…I am excited for you to pass those along to your kids. I cling to the fact that sweet Charley was handpicked for you before you even knew it. God is good and everything he does is good. I love your heart, patience and trust. Blessings to you both.

tisha

Oh she is perfect! So happy for you and can’t wait to learn even more about your journey! :-) Congrats!

Toni

Jessica and Corey I have enjoyed both your parents so much and hearing the story from their point of view…praying for you guys and being able to participate in God’s story for your family has been such a joy. Hearing the details of how God brought you into agreement is a wonderful witness to His transforming power in our lives.

Trude

Wow. Just wow. Thank you so much for sharing your story, and so honestly! Such a beautiful baby. Congratulations to you both, and looking forward to part 2! <3

Tresa Collins

Can’t wait to hear all the details - although it’s okay if that doesn’t happen for several years, trust me - these first years fly by. STOP and enjoy, enjoy, enjoy!!!
I am just so thrilled that you’re a Mommy - my heart swells with joy for you and for little Charley.
I am anxious for LOTS of pictures though :o)
Thinking of you and your beautiful family.
Hugs,
The Collins Crew

Tammy

Awesome story! I can’t wait to read the rest! Charley is gorgeous and I love all that hair. Oh my goodness she looks so sweet! Congratulations!!!

Christi

OKay, so I’m reading these backwards trying to get caught up. I had no idea beautiful Charley was adopted. Honestly Jessica…she totally looks like you! It was definitely God’s plan for that little bundle to end up in your arms. I’m SO happy for you and your husband. Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. *HUGS*

the “small” secret we’ve been keeping …

Posted in Fridays, Life, Love, Misc, Ramblings on July 20, 2010

untitled-1our entire lives changed in April when we got the call from the agency that a birth mom wanted to meet us. It was in that moment that I knew this story was meant to be ours. Two and a half months later we finally welcomed our baby girl into the world (this past Thursday, July 15th @ 6:15 pm). 6 lbs, 11 ounces and 19.5 inches long she is the most perfect little baby we have ever laid our eyes on. She has opened doors in our heart and filled our lives with more love than we thought possible.

Her name is Charlotte Louise and we are calling her “Charley” for short.

Lots more photos and stories to share very soon. For now, we’re just enjoying her every breath ….

xoxoxoxoxoxoxo!

jc

p.s. 503 is on hold indefinitely.

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Becca

Oh my! Congratulations! I almost never comment on here (admitted lurker), but I was a year or two behind you in high school. I happened upon your blog through mutual friends at BHS. And I just grinned and got goosebumps when I pulled up your blog. :) What a wonderful sight! Praise the Lord for this precious new life!!!

Lee Currie

So wonderful. Enjoy!

Antje

Jess, I am so overjoyed for you both! Enjoy each precious minute with little Charley! Can’t wait to see more pics and to meet her at some point.

AmyC

Oh my goodness!! I wondered what you’ve been up to :) I am so happy for you all. She has a beautiful name. You will adore this adventure, and yes it is an adventure :). I can’t wait to hear more and see more photos! Congratulations!!!!! Soak it all in!

Erin T.

GOD IS GOOD!!! How wonderful! So very very excited for all of you. Sending love and hugs!

Destinee

Just found your blog through a repost at creative mama. Can’t wait to look at more of your work but I just wanted to say congratulations! What a sweet blessing!

amy

hi jessica!! i was in one of your 503 workshops last summer. you changed my life in ways i never dreamed possible. ever since i “met” you, i have been praying that you would one day hold a baby of your own. my best friend has adopted two little girls and over many years, i watched her go through the heartbreak of infertility to the joys of finally becoming a mother. my friend (who is also a beginning photog) recently did a photo shoot for another mom who had just adopted and my friend wrote a beautiful piece about adoption. if you’re interested in reading it, it’s at http://shannonladukephotography.blogspot.com/2010/06/baby-r-sneak-peek.html. you may need a tissue though! i am so thrilled for you and can’t wait to watch your precious baby grow on your blog! congratulations on your family of three!!! xoxoxo

Karen Russell

Wow - congratulations to you!!! What an amazing, beautiful blessing!!! Congrats again!

Brooke Snow

Oh my oh my!!!!!

I’m just absolutely delighted for you! You will LOVE being a mom! It is amazing! I’m beyond thrilled for your new little family! Can’t wait to see more pictures!

Tracey Lapin

I had a funny feeling we would be hearing something along these lines soon…
There is one very happy student of yours clapping with joy all the way in Sydney, Australia…

Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful daughter - xxx

Michelle

Congratulations!!!! What wonderful news. God bless.

Jobrina Hofleit

OMGoodness!!!!! She is absolutely GORGEOUS!!!! Congratulations to you and your husband, Jessica! I was in your 503 Workshop back in November and have always had you in my thoughts with all your struggles (as I have had myself) and am so unbelievably happy for you! “Unanswered Prayers” are truly a miracle. You will LOVE being a mommy, it truly is the most amazing job we could ever hope to have!!!!! Looking forward to seeing endless pictures of Charley! :-)

Kimberly

Oh My! HOW AWESOME!

Congratulations!

MelissaFoscardo

Just fantastic!! I’m so happy for you and your husband. Congratulations. Can’t wait to see more pictures of your little bundle of joy :-)

kristin hayes

jess. i. CA!!!!!!!

oh my goodness. that is the best news in the universe. i am over the moon for the three of you (and everyone else in your world).

you are a parent! you are somebody’s MOM! you ahve a DAUGHTER for goodness sake!!!

she is pure perfection, i can’t wait to watch her grow via your breathtaking images.

looks like you’ve found yourself another soulmate there, sister…

rachael s

congratulations…enjoy these first few moments as a new family!

ari

So happy for you Jess. I know you’ve waited so long to be a mommy and now is your time! You’re going to love having a baby girl….they’re the best!
ari

Heather

Congrats to you, what a lovely name~

Bridgette

LOVE this picture - it says so much! So happy for you both. Enjoy every second of being a mommy. Charley is ADORABLE, so precious.

kristin

oh YAY! i don’t know you even a little bit but congratulations!! i can tell from your blog that this has been a long time coming so when i saw that picture i gasped in happiness for you. :) have fun!

Tammy

This just made me cry. I know I don’t really “know” y’all, but I’m am so incredibly happy for you. CONGRATULATIONS! This is just wonderful news!

Renee

OMG!! Jessica!! I saw someone post this yesterday saying CONGRATS and I thought it was you, but then I said, hmm…I’m not sure b/c I couldn’t tell by the picture. I’m so used to your black and white one! YAAAAAAY!!! It is you!!

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! I wish you amazing new parenthood bliss!!!! YAAAAY!

Lori K

Congratulations, Jessica - how exciting! Very happy for you and your expanding family!

Karyn Collins

Bright Blissed out Blessings! Enjoy every wonderful mommy moment. Congratulations!!

michelle

What an incredible surprise to click on over to your blog today and see this sweet post!!! I know you and your husband must be over-the-moon filled with JOY!!! :o) Congratulations on your beautiful daughter!!!!! Breathe in every. single. second. (((hugs)))

Emilee

Oh, Jess! I’m literally crying with JOY for you and your family! You’re a MOMMY and I am so extremely happy for you. Words can’t express the happiness I feel for y’all. Charley is beautiful and I praise the Lord for her!

“The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped. My heart leaps for joy and I will give thanks to him in song.” -Psalm 28:7

anna

sweet. beautiful. perfect.

shaina

oh jess, i am so beyond words happy for you. thank you for sharing your precious new gift with us. i can’t wait to watch her grow.
love from me to you and yours….
<3

MartaV

Congratulations! I am over the moon excited for you both. You absolutely deserve all the best. You will be amazing parents. Welcome to parenthood!! Best wishes to you both.

Nicolasa

Wow! I am SO excited for you two! This is just fantastic! I can’t wait to hear more and see more!

Tara

Congratulations, Jessica! I am filled with joy for you and your family. I can see the sheer happiness in your smiles. Thanks for sharing this with us. Can’t wait to see more pictures of beautiful little Charley (love the name).

Tracy

I am so very happy for you and for your new family. When I took your workshop, I hadn’t read your blog for very long and so didn’t know your story. That changed a few weeks ago, as I found myself going back and reading your older posts. Congratulations. I wish you all the best. (I have my own Charlie — a boy — it’s a terrific name!!!)

Emily

Oh my goodness, Jess! I’m so thrilled for you and Corey! Enjoy being a momma…it’s the greatest!

Melissa

Oh Jess! This post made me tear up and get goosebumps! I’m so excited for you guys. Contratulations to you both!!

Jessica

Congrats to you and your husband! That is such wonderful news! I was a student in your last workshop and have followed your blog for a while. Enjoy every moment!! :)

Erica

Jess, as an adoptive mama I just want to say welcome to the family and a big congratulations to the 3 of you! I am so, so happy for you! Even now I sit and stare at my son when he isn’t paying attention and I sneak in his room and watch him sleep. He still brings tears of happiness to my eyes even after 2 years.

Enjoy the moment, savor it even when times get tough. Enjoy her baby scent and each little smile. Motherhood is the greatest gift of love I have ever experienced. I had no idea I could so love so fiercely until my son.

David Stephen Kalonick

Hip Hip Hooray!!! Congratulations! We can’t wait for pictures!

-David and Kristen

Jen

Congratulations!!! What wonderful news! :)

Sparklebutt

Just Perfect! I am so happy for you all. ENJOY this special time!

Lauren Dvorscak

I knew it!!! I just knew and hoped that there was baby news with all of your hint dropping comments! CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am so thrilled for you, your husband, and Charley.

Take peace in knowing that the first month is the hardest and it DOES get better every month. And take comfort in knowing that bonding takes time, even with a biological baby. It will come, and it will knock your socks off! It’s so wonderful and amazing to watch your baby grow. After 13 months now, I still keep saying “I know I just said this 3 months ago, but THIS is my favorite stage so far!”. She will teach you everything you need to know.

Congrats to you all. I am full of joy for you!

~Lauren
Former 6/10 503 student
Moderator of the auditors’ yahoo group

Molly in MN

Oh my goodness! So happy for you!
Can’t wait to have more Charley love!

michelle gardella

I love this: 503 is on hold indefinitely. welcome to the marvelous world of balancing! i cannot wait to see more beautiful pictures!! congrats!!

Misty

So, so, SO happy for you! Congratulations!

Regina

SO Happy for you guys!! Congratulations!

Summer C.

Congrats!!! I’ve been following your blog for a while now and am so thrilled for you momma! She is going to be so loved!

jasmine

jessica! i’m thrilled for you. thank you for sharing so much with us… congratulations on your sweet new baby girl!

Kristen Reed

Jessica.
PRAISE.THE.LORD. I am SO thrilled for you guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your post literally took my breath away…ok, maybe it was just the photo (holy wow!).
I’m SOOOOO excited for your family and CANT wait to see more pictures and stories and I know that this little girl will have the most amazing mom and dad ever! Congrats on your new love! And praise God for his wonderful and marvelous timing and plan!

Kristen Reed

jenn

you know my heart hasn’t stopped smiling~~~xoxoxo! love her and love you!

Jenna H

CONGRATS!! Enjoy your new little family! :)

Galina

oh my!!!!
this is just … wow!!!
Congratulations to you!!!
I’ve been reading your blog for months and I know how you’ve awaited this moment!!! CONGRATS!!!!!

Dana

Jessica — congrats on your beautiful baby girl with a beautiful name!!

kelly

I heart you and your precious little family so very much.

Susanne

Congratulations!!!!! So happy for you!

Karyn Hlad Miller

Tears of happy here for you. So very very thrilled to find this post today.

Claudia Ramos

Congratulations!!! Wonderfull news! Best wishes to the three of you.

Karyn Hlad Miller

I had to have a look at that picture one more time. So happy for you all!!!

Tab

Jessica - what a gift to receive and to capture that beautiful picture of happiness. I have goosebumps. I took your photography class and loved every minute of it. You and your husband deserve everything good. She is precious! Love her name!

Leah

Congratulations. What amazing news to read!

Gladys

Wow!! Congratulations!! Enjoy your new princess!!

deb schwedhelm

CONGRATULATIONS!!! i am so incredibly happy for you. can’t wait to see more photos.
many hugs!!
deb
p.s. if ryder was a girl, i would have named her charley :-))

Caro

Jessica- Such a blessing!

I took your workshop April…and loved it.
I’m thrilled at your family of 3- simply thrilled!!

Much love-
Carolyn
(Caro)

amyk

Jessica-
How wonderful for you and your husband!!!
I was in your January class and was hoping that some good news would be coming your way… what an absolute blessing!
can’t wait to see more photos!!! congratulations!!!
enjoy every moment!

Amber H

God is so good! You are beaming and I love it! Welcome to motherhood sweet friend!

Kelly

Aww! That picture says it all! BEAUTIFUL!!! I was in your March class and was hoping to see this happy news here soon. As an infertility survivor myself, I know what it means to snuggle a little one after all the heartbreak you have been through. I truly believe we love just a little differently after walking that walk. Isn’t it amazing to think what she means to you and you to her? Congratulations momma!

Layne=)

Oh she’s beautiful! I have a cousin who’s adopted and we just love him to death!=)
I’m so happy for you! I love babies=) Snuggle her up good!=D
XOXO
Layne=)

Glennen

Congratulations on your beautiful girl!!!

Gail

OH girl CONGRATULATIONS! I’m late to this guy (this is what happens when you’re out of the country - haha), but when I saw your most recent Tweet, I wondered what was going on with that little bundle in your arms!!!! So so happy for you and your husband!

Lisa Anderson

OH MY GOODNESS - I just saw your post on FB about being at the movie and having a baby in tow and I was thinking “Wait, what?” You posted your little surprise while I was on vacation so that’s how I missed the news. I cannot express exactly in words how happy I am for you and your husband. My husband and I have 2 adopted children as well and have proven something a friend told me when we started this venture - “they will fill holes in your life and heart that you never even knew you had”…children are amazing and show you so much about the world that we take for granted. I wish you, your husband and Charley a million and one wonderful blessings. Can’t wait to hear and see more about how this all unfolds!

Kathi

Congratulations!! I was needing some good news. So happy for you.

jennifer

former student and blog reader here…that is such WONDERFUL news. Congratulations to you both - enjoy all of the little moments……..fantastic!

heather

I couldn’t be more happy for the three of you…cherish every moment!!!

Veronica

Felicidades!!!!!!!!!! SO happy for you!! I read the news with tears! he he- I feel like I know you already! Though the blog and workshop!- All the best in this new season of your lives! Looking forward to see more photos of your little princess!

ang

oh i adore that little girl to PIECES! enjoy, cherish, breathe her in. 503 can wait :) love ya!

Christina

Congratulations, Jessica!!!! I’m so happy for your new little family <3

Liz

Wow! Nothing like making people cry (tears of joy, of course) right before Sunday dinner!! I have been reading your blog for quite some time now. When I was dealing with my own infertility, it was your story that gave me reassurance that I was not the only one. You helped me keep the faith. After I delivered my dynamic duo (last June) I never stopped praying that something miraculous would come your way. The Big Guy certainly delivered! Lil’ Miss Charley is going to rock your world in the most amazing way possible! And, I know we are all excited to hear about every detail! CONGRATS!!

Kim

Congratulations to you!!! I’m sad that you’re on hold but completely understand why! Enjoy every tiny second and we’ll all be here when you get back!!!

Becca

Jess — I am so happy for you and your husband. This just bring tears of joy because I can relate to your story to well. I just am so happy that you and your hubby have had this little blessing drop in your lives and forever change you and her life. :) Its PERFECT fit.

Enjoy every second with her and I can’t wait to see more pictures!

Hugs!!!

Nan Merrow

Congratulations!! She’s beautiful. Her little life will be well documented, I’m sure.

Linni

It’s a girl!

Breathless.

Speechless.

Just a smile.

Happy Heart.

Wow!

Amazed.

Totally stunned.

Unreal. Real.

Majestically big!

Over the moon with happiness and gratitude for you!

Butterfly kisses behind Charley’s ear, between the fold of the neck and the shoulder…

Congratulations Mama and Daddy! This is amazing! xx

Rebecca

Congratulations! Finding this post told me today was a good day to de-lurk. I’m an adoptive mom (one internationally & currently waiting on a domestic match) and I love photography. So happy for you all!

Vikki O'Brien

I am just overjoyed for you both!! I am a former student and just checked in on you and “WOW” I know you are just the perfect mom and your heart is so full!!
Congratulations!! What a blessing!!

Tresa Collins

A perfect little spirit has chosen her family . I am so so happy for you - I sit here in tears of joy. I just know you’re savoring each day as the miracle it is. Enjoy, my dear friend - ENJOY!!!
Love, congrats, and big hugs,
The Collins Crew

Chelsey | MachC Photography

How wonderfully exciting! She is adorable! We’re on our own little journey of adding to our family as well … kindred (web) spirits ;)
congratulations!

annie is …

Posted in Life on July 12, 2010

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such a beautiful senior. don’t you agree?

(and these photos were taken in 100 degree heat with the brightest summer sun you have ever seen! you should have seen me. :-/)

xo!

jc

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Jessica

Well done! I am always struggling in the heat here in southern AZ… and the summer sun never works for me like it just did for you. Maybe I should change my way of thinking - “I” haven’t figured out how to “work” the hot sun yet. :) I enjoy your posts, thank you for sharing!

AmyC

She is beautiful. And these images are beautiful too :)

Tonya Marie

Lovely work. Beautiful senior. I especially like the one of her laying in the grass and the close up profile. She will love them!

ang

jessica these are gorgeous, the second one down is probably my fave! xoxo :)

Joyce Smith

Beautiful, Jessica! Thank you so much for stopping by the blog and for your kind words. I look forward to exploring your sites!

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Posted in Misc, Ramblings on July 09, 2010

series1I will find you and I will raise my glass, blow kisses, squish faces, attempt to look cross-eyed, laugh and yell. I will have my picture made with my best friends, my husband’s best friend, my parents and even a few unsuspecting strangers. I will act like a total fool and when 10 minutes has passed I will see you in the corner and I will grab a few new people and I will return. All. Night. Long.

I will make your photo guestbook my version of Where’s Waldo?

Please forgive me. I don’t get out much.

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Stephanie

These are hilarious! Can you take me to the next wedding you go to?:)

Antje

Love the pic of you and your mom kissing your dad on the cheeks! Lucky man!

AmyC

Looks fun! Always good to let loose :)

Molly in MN

love this!! I so wish I would have had one of these at my wedding - people need to have this kind of harmless fun more often!

Patty

I love this like crazy.

Photography Friday: Studio 6.23

Posted in Fridays on July 02, 2010

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Dear Sweet Readers,

May I be cheesy for a moment and say I miss you? It’s true. I love blogging and I love my readers - the secret and non-secret ones. ; ) The reason I’ve gone missing is because a few weeks ago I was sitting in a coffee shop here in town working. My neck was aching me because I’ve been stuck in a computer day in, day out for three. months. straight. so I looked up to stretch it out a bit and I noticed something really amazing and wonderful and sad all at the same time.

It’s summer.

Like full-blown summer. The time of year where people wear flip-flops and bathing suits under their dresses, and ride their bikes around town and go to coffee shops just to sip on a iced Chai and read a good book.

To me it was still winter. Because winter was the last time I knew what month it was.

So, I dug my heels in deep and finished up the last bits to kick off the kids’ workshops and get through week 2 of the adults’ workshop (always the hardest week for everyone) and then shoot a full-day wedding out of town and then I took a deep breath and started to enjoy summer.

I’ve been spending more of my time planting flowers and sewing, shopping and dreaming, sitting on the back porch with cold beer and going on lazy walks with the husband and dog in company. These are the things I love to do in the warmer months and the things I had not done at all since winter bid us adieu!

Things are busy around here, even with the lazy activities we love so much. I have been to Knoxville 4 times this month for different reasons (1 being for my best friend’s weddings which was the most fun weekend of the summer!) and we have all sorts of things unfolding in our family. I will write more about it very soon, but for now I am saying hello and that I am alive and that I miss you and that I love Ben and Mindy so very much.

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Here’s what seems to happen way too often. Photographer decides to be a professional. Photographer makes pretty photographs and a bit of money. Photographer gets big head and thinks they’re too cool for school.

I see it all the time.

Then, there are those types (every single type I’ve ever had the blessing of interviewing) who never get too big for their britches. The type that remain humble and down-to-earth and well, just cool. Those are the types I want to know. Those are the people I want to learn from and grow from and get to know just a bit. Even if it’s via a Friday interview.

So, I’d like to introduce you to another set of photographers whom I just adore. They’re humble and down-to-earth (you can see it in their work) and well, just cool.

Ben and Mindy Peterson from STUDIO 6.23.

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Welcome, Cool Cats!

First things first. 6.23. Tell us about it.

BEN:  some people ask if 6.23 is a bible verse.  First time we heard that, we chuckled and thought, “huh, we never thought of that!”  but it’s actually our anniversary, and our subtle little way of saying we’re a husband wife team.  10 years this year!

MINDY:  yes, and we just celebrated our 10 year anniversary!!  WOOHOO! ben is so HOT!!

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How would you describe your style?

BEN:  we’re a bit  ‘untidy,’ colorful, fun, and we’re always looking for a fresh perspective.  that’s how we live so it has a way of expressing itself in our pictures too.

MINDY:  we are tad BOLD and love to push the edge just a bit.  i’d say our style is similar to the way we decorate and design….. mid-century modern meets anthropologie.  aaahh…. what  a love story.  : ) others have described us as urban with a flair of modern vintage or retro.  we are happy with any of these associations!

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It seems everyone has a journey to discovering their “own style.” Tell us about yours.

BEN:  I married mindy…haha!!  no joke.  10 years ago I was known for sweater vests, feathered hair and my franklin covey planner : )  mindy was known for being the life of the party and running late.  So together, we try and push the limits of order (composition, lines, lights, etc…) and fun (angles, laughing, locations, color…).  In 10 years, we’ve just started to figure out who we are together…and that has a way of creeping into our pictures.

MINDY:  owning and knowing your style is so important!!!  color, design, fabrics, cities, locations, magazines and most importantly people have all played a huge part in discovering our style.  it probably took about a year and a half before we were confidently ready to own our style UNAPOLOGETICALLY.  this means not catering to everyone and every style.  it even means not taking every client (even referring them to other photogs) and it’s the best thing for EVERYONE involved!!  if the client truly loves your style, that means that you will have a creative freedom to engage them with your uniqueness and in the end, rock out a super-fly product!

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We’ve all done them - a few business mistakes you’ve made:

BEN:  playing it safe with a “day job” for too long….safe is boring!  I should’ve joined mindy full time much earlier.

MINDY:  i’d have to say…. AGAIN : ) not fully engaging our style earlier.  Oh and not hiring an accountant and tax peep earlier!!  a big shout-out to the type A, super organized, number-people in our lives….. we need you!! : )  and it’s possible that I use smiley-faces too much.  : )  but I don’t care…… it means i’m happy. : )

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Ultimately, we’re all brilliant – a few of the best business decisions ever made:

BEN:  rebranding our business (to STUDIO 6.23) when I came in full time.

MINDY: I concur.  (didn’t I sound super official just now?) : )  rebranding and putting systems in place that allow us to run our business like a smooth operator.  (p.s.- thanks to ben!  My nickname for him is “taskmaster”, but he’s truly genius when it comes to our branding, systems and marketing!!)

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Canon or Nikon?

BEN:  Nikon’s good and all.  But nope… Canon.

MINDY:  they BOTH have their strengths, but we all know Canon is cooler. : )

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What is the one lens you couldn’t live without?

BEN:  pattern would suggest that it’s whatever lens I want to buy next!!  currently eyeing the 24.

MINDY: hmmmm….. it depends on what i’m shooting.  I’d say the 35 1.4L for portraits and for weddings (photojournalism parts) my 70-200 2.8L.

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What keeps you inspired to do what you do with passion?

BEN:  I want to be proud of everything I do and I always want to be excited to do  it.  So I pretty much always have to be trying new things.  That’s where the adventure is.

MINDY:  ben, you are such an over-achiever.  no really….. he is….. true story. : )

I am convinced that when God created me, he filled me with ralph lauren paint swatches, fabrics, textured walls, fabulous furniture and a great love for people.  since i adore people (i’m often found talking with complete strangers…. or possibly walls if no people are available.) and design, to be able to create art with both is a gift.  staying inspired is simply looking around me.

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What other artists inspire you?

BEN:  photogs…nate and jaclyn kaiser and sean flanigan.  But big picture, i’m always the most inspired by the artist that tries something new.  And it’s the courage and innovation that inspires me more than the art.

MINDY:  different artists move me in different ways.

inventively brilliant + clever= nate + jaclyn kaiser (the image is found) and max wanger.

stylish + bold= justin + amelia lyon (amelia lyon photography), mark + candice brooke (mark brooke photography) and poser.

awesome swank + super-fly fun= bobbi + mike and laurel mcconnell.

stunning + authentic= jose villa and sean flanigan.

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What one piece of advice would you give to someone just starting out with his/her photography business?

BEN:  discover your style and let that alone govern everything else (branding, lens selection, locations…).  Lots of people have lots of opinions but it’s most important to know what you think first.

MINDY: yeah, what he said. : ) make sure you know what it takes to run a good business.  you may love photography (and even be really fantastic!), but that is only half of it!  take plenty of time to second shoot at weddings if you are aspiring to be a wedding photographer.  if you jump right in (and call yourself professional photographer) without the proper equipment and experience, you may burn your reputation before you begin.  weddings are a whole new ball-game…. and not one that you can do over.  : ) after you feel established, organized and confident……. rock on with your bad self!!

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Do you have a favorite genre to photograph (weddings, newborns, families, etc.)?

BEN:  weddings hands down.  I love having to figure out how to get the great shot when you hardly have time to take it.  And I love being social and keeping people first even when the taskmaster in me is going nuts.  The pace forces me to be better.

MINDY:  weddings win for me, too!  The people, the emotions, the beauty and overall fabulousness is my favorite!  Engagements and families run a close second.  : )

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When you’re setting out for a photo shoot how do you prepare beforehand?

BEN:  we always know the locations we’re going to and how the light is going to be when we get there.  And then we’re ok with changing everything up once we start shooting.

MINDY:  we love to scout ahead of time and also help coach families or couples on outfits, if possible.  the people absolutely make the photos what they are…… but let’s be honest, awesome locations and stylish outfits don’t hurt.  : )

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How much post-processing work do you do to your images?

BEN:  none.  Mindy does that : )

MINDY:  we….. wait, correction, I do raw edits in LR and the some creative edits in photoshop.  and actually ben does help…. he weeds through and crops for me.  then I work my rad action magic (thank you spectacular, boutwells!)

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Do you ever use artificial light?

BEN:  as little as possible…i’d rather find a different spot to shoot with better light.  But we’re pretty much always shooting bees during family portraits at the wedding.  And i’m addicted to off-camera on the dance floor.

MINDY: i love on the natural light most of the time, if possible.  however, i’m becoming a big fan of off-camera for dancing and crazy night pictures.

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Have you ever attended any workshops you would recommend? What about books, training DVDs, etc?

BEN:  I do know the workshop I want to attend… the one where a group of us get together to discover more fun ways to shoot the less exciting reception shots (party intros, toasts, etc…) and the more exciting ones that are harder to get (dancing).  I’m there.

MINDY: WPPI is a kick-booty place to meet other cool people that like to take pictures with lots of resources and workshops for everyone.  workshops that are hands-on and geared toward your style or genre rock.  Rumor has it that image is found puts on quite the gig, as well as amelia lyon photography.  good stuff.

{ Note from Jessica: I’ve been to Nate & Jaclyn’s workshop and the rumors are true. It’s awesome, two thumbs up! }

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How would you like to see your business evolve in the next 5-10 years?

BEN:  I want to feel that my first shots of every year are totally better than the year before.  I want to be more and more about connecting with people.   But most of all … it’s got to be keeping our marriage fun and making it stronger.

MINDY: as time goes on, things run more smoothly.  I would love to get to the point where we are super-duper efficient, but never complacent!  And I always want to step it up a notch…. each year inventing more creative ways to stand apart….. in a good way.  : )

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The million-dollar question: how do you guys (assuming you do, feel free to be honest) stay balanced with running a business and growing a family?

BEN:  the philosopher in me wants the floor first… i’m pretty sure that balance is something that has to be found, and it’s not something to start with.  It’s hide and seek where finding it is half the fun.  practically speaking…work while the kids are sleeping and have a “family night” every week…no exceptions!

MINDY:  3 incredibly flexible, fun and amazing kids, 1 over-achieving, super supportive, brilliant and fabulous husband, awesome friends + family, spectacular clients (many now friends), adventurous spirits and a splash of ritalin.  we embrace the chaos….. that’s just how we roll.  : )

And, just for fun …

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From the music on your website it sounds like you have good taste. Who are a few artists you’re listening to nowadays?

BEN:  i’m pretty sure I was raised in the best decade of music…the 80’s.  I’ve rediscovered my love for the Def Leppard channel on pandora.  But i’ve got to say that i’m strangely intriqued by the indian dance music we heard at our last wedding!!

MINDY: yes, beat me to the punch again…. I love 80’s music!!  and 90’s….  and really anything that makes me want to cut a rug.  i REALLY love to dance!!  U2 has always been my favorite overall band…. just saw them in concert.  it was the bomb.

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If you could no longer be photographers what would you all do to pay the bills?

BEN:  get our kids a good job.

MINDY: I have always wanted to be a ROCKSTAR!!!  still holding onto the dream.

BEN:  don’t quit your day job mindy : )

Something even your most avid readers might know about you both:

BEN:  mindy says i’m a really good kisser, I used to be a worship leader, I have 1 ½ graduate degrees, and I could eat pizza for every meal.

MINDY:  ben is a really good kisser…… but, i’m pretty sure i taught him that skill. : )  I played soccer in college (and after) and I miss those days.  I was in france when they won the world cup in 1998….. what a party!!  I have a compassionate heart for ophans, the homeless and anyone who is hurting.  I am very passionate about my family, friends and you, if we ever meet.  : )  I am blessed way beyond what i’ll ever deserve.  My faith is extremely important to me and i love Jesus.  I have some hot pink hair and a small butterfly tattoo (that ben found out I got via a fb status update!) I am a grape martini kind of girl and really love gas station cappuccinos.  I absolutely ADORE my husband and our kiddos….. they are amazing.  decorating is one of my favorite things to do and I obsess over paint swatches, fabrics and am constantly re-designing spaces in our house.  I have traveled some, but not enough.  I have a list of places still left to visit and things i’d like to do.  you can stop over to the peterson home any time…. visitors always welcome.  : )  (i think i went a bit long for this question…..) : )

*short version for ADD readers: i love Jesus, my husband, our kiddos, traveling, grape martinis, good design, new adventures, soccer, people.

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Your favorite thing about being a mother/father:

BEN:  seeing the life in the kids’ eyes when they figure out how to do something they couldn’t do before.

MINDY:  when they are kind and giving without a material reward or they put someone else before themselves.  makes my heart so happy and proud. : )

Your bags are packed, your kids taken care of, airplane tickets being handed over. Where would you long for them to say your destination is?

BEN:  right now, a disney cruise with the family.  With this being our 10 year anniversary, we’ve talked hawaii, europe, etc…. but what we really want is more great time with the kids.

MINDY: if we have not been away from our kids, and they are well taken care of….. let’s go to europe with some friends.  i have been twice, but before I met ben.  time for us to go together!

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You guys are on my favorites list forever! Thanks for being so cool.

Make sure to link up with Ben & Mindy on their website, blog, twitter or facebook!

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For past Photography Fridays click and enjoy!

Jasmine Star,  Jesh de Rox, Jose Villa, Cheryl Muhr, Becky Earl, Sheye Rosemeyer, Michael Wilson, Kristie Serra, Tara Whitney, Max Wanger and Shannon Sewell

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Ashley

Incredible! Their work is to die for!

Tori

Awesome interview, thanks for sharing! :)

Trude

Awesome work! Thanks for doing the interview! And I’m glad you’re getting some well-deserved down time. :)

Stephanie

Love them! I want to be their friends:) So funny to see how different they are, yet how much they balance each other out.

Dusty Brown

ROCK ON Wild Ones!! Love you both!

db

ben + mindy

what an honor to be featured, jess….. thank you so much!!! we’re not worthy, we’re not worthy!!! (anyone see wayne’s world?) :) and dusty……. we love YOU!! thanks for the kind comments you all have left! let’s do lunch! :) xoxo

Hayley Johnson

LOVED this! You guys ROCK!!!

sz-min

it’s probably time to tell you that i secretly read your blog :) love it and you.

Just me and you and a little love …

Posted in Love on June 16, 2010

I had breakfast with my dear friend Cyndi last week and she asked me why I no longer post photos from sessions I do. I confessed I am lazy. Okay, so I’m not that lazy (although I do *love* to sleep). It just takes time. Which is lame I know because there are loads of faces that deserve to be shown off. Like this scrumptious couple. Aren’t they adorable?

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These were our first two photos and 2 seconds later it started to drizzle. I screamed “hurry!” and bossed them around like a drill sergeant the rest of the time. ; ) Luckily, we got plenty of good shooting time in before the rain came.

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Happy Wednesday!

jc

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kelly

Please do not withhold images like this from us ever again. Thank you.

These are so beautiful! Love, love, love them!

Preppy 101 {Auntie}

Of course they are great! I got a fabulous forward from your mom today ;-) So fun and exciting to read. Love. xoxo

Stephanie

I totally agree with Kelly! (Shaking my finger at you):) Gorgeous work as usual!

Patty

Whoa Merc. You are a genius. These are great.

Danna made this photo …

Posted in Misc on June 10, 2010

danna11… and, posted it for her week 1 homework. I don’t normally showcase student’s homework. My workshop is much more about learning the technical stuff than it is about winning photography contests with homework photos. But, this photograph stopped me in my tracks. For quite some time. It reminded me of this quote :

A photograph is memory in the raw.  ~Carrie Latet

Her sweet daughter’s face has already changed since this photo was taken. But, the way it looked on this particular day will be captured forever. It’s the perfect example of a simple portrait done right. Don’t you all agree that she is the most beautiful little girl ever? There’s just something so perfect about her exact makeup. I love it.

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Regina

Wow, great photo! Do you know when you’ll announce your next adult online workshop? I’m so excited, I think I can do the next one!

Danna

Wow, I am so flattered by your comments Jessica - not just about the photo but about my daughter. We think she is pretty perfect too! What I find so cool about photographing both of my girls is that photos almost always show you something you don’t necessarily appreciate with your eye. For example in this photo, even though this is her 9 yeard old face, you can somehow get a glimpse what her 19 year old face will look like - it’s like a sneak preview.

Stephanie

I just love seeing the work of your former students! It just amazes me how much you’ve taught all of us and how much we’ve grown by taking your workshop. Thank you so much for offering it and for giving your time, energy, and love to it and to us:)

Stephanie

I should have said former and current students:)

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